Thursday, April 4, 2013

Received Monday, April 1, 2013

Zak sent pictures!!! Here are a few:




Zak with his Companion - Elder Beck

"almost covered" cars! They did get plenty of snow!



QUESTIONS:
How was your Easter?
really, very good. The 3 hours of church were made maybe my favorite church service ever. Really good Easter talks/lessons. I'll talk more about the day after the questions

Did you have a dinner appointment?
yes. we do about 97% of the time, especially holidays. we were invited to another as well that had 4 or 5 families going and the one we went to had about 5 or 6 different families there too.

What did you eat?
food.

How was your church meeting?
it really stank. (just kidding)

What songs did you sing?
ummm I don't remember. To start the day Elder Holt said he hopes we sing Christ the Lord is Risen today, Alleluia (like you guys did) but we didn't. During the combined 3rd hour we listened to a recording of someone singing "I Know My Redeemer lives"

Did you ward do something different because of the 5th Sunday?
yes, the 3rd hour was combined. Brother Lyons, the sunday school president, gave a lesson on the Christlike Attributes in PMG. Did an excellent job. used a few different pieces of media.

Would you be allowed to see a youtube video of Chase while in the hospital asking the same questions repeatedly? I could send you a link if yes.
probably not. I have used youtube to watch a specific mormon message during a lesson before though and it went really well. www.youtube.com/watch?v=CkKblIMfmjI

Not a question, but look for your flashdrive in the mail this week!!
will do!

How is your retainer fitting?
fine. I'm slightly afraid it's been bent a little since it's original creation though. my teeth still look straight I remember to wear it most nights.

Also not a question, but your shoes, (from your pictures) are SO shiny. Very nice!
after being a missionary for 5 or 6 months I realized I had never used my shoe shining kit, so I did it once. The picture was probably taken after that. Sometimes P-day morning I think I should do it again that day, but it hasn't happened again since.

Did investigators make it to church today??
1 did. 1 was sick. 1's wife just had a baby, also he'll probably go to the Spanish branch when he finally goes. 1 family didn't go, but after the big tearful, finally spill all the beans on whats going on lesson we had yesterday, will surely being watching conference next week. 1 might have been working. 2 have excuses that I would put under the "far less than good" category.
A ton of less actives came though. Hopefully we'll be able to build some momentum from it.


thoughts on the funny/good mail I got this week:
the "do you feel stuck... Call the mormon missionaries!" meme was very funny. Both Elder Holt and I enjoyed it. It shouldn't be as controversial as the last one you sent me.

People of the LDS church rank either #3 or 4 (I don't remember) of knowledge of other world religions Interestingly. the group of "Atheists" ranks either #1 or #2. those are real stats, and will become relevant and make sense in a second. Also we know there are a lot of Atheists now in America and I think it's on the rise. Something President Clayton Christenson talked to us about is that the reason he believes there are so many is basically because they are smart, and therefore they reject falsehood The concept of God they so often hear about they know can't be true, so they reject the idea of religion all together. They just haven't had the chance to hear the truth. I think if all I heard about God was that he was everywhere, but no where and that he was 3 people, but actually just 1 and that when he was baptized his own voice called himself "my son", I'm not sure I would be a huge fan of religion either. Since hearing him talk about that I've been able to see it in a lot of people I've talked too.

I think everyone has the basic deep life questions (what happens after this life, what's the point, how can I really be happy, etc) in them. Some people think about them more than others, but everyone somewhere in life has a need to seek answers for them. Some people see a lot of what they know must be false, so they become "atheist", a lot of people look for a church that is "right for them". I'm not sure if most people who do that realize the churches they join that believe the bible don't follow a lot of what it says. Having a lay ministry keeping the law of chastity doing missionary work, etc ARE in the bible; maybe people don't realize that, maybe they just would rather ignore it. I grew up with the idea that there is a "true church"; that Christ's gospel is prefect and universal. That makes perfect sense to me and anything i feel is flawed. Most people do not have that idea, which is also how the idea of the "right for me" church comes to be. What I've noticed the "right for me" church usually consists of is the correct mix of preaching the pleasing word (so as to keep things happy and easy) with the right mix of teaching the commandments (so as to help everyone be "good people", and thus "make it into heaven"). Also being close to where you live helps something become the "right church".

2 last thoughts on the subject: I think most everyone would agree the best way to find the "right church" and the true and correct answers to life questions is to go to the source. To follow the advice in James 1:5 and ask God. He knows better than we do or anyone else, even the guy from church who's read the bible 14 times forward and twice backward.

For me, in my life I've had experiences, thoughts and feelings that I know have come from God. What he's communicated to me is that the right church for me is Christ's church. I believe that church is right for everyone. Maybe If I had more time I could organize all that a little better and make it a little more coherent and less wildly bold, but I do not.

Good job to christopher in selling of the puppies! did Chancho pay for herself/Gaston? make a profit yet? how long before there will be more puppies? also good job fighting with a kite.

It's interesting to hear about church in arcadia and how they're organizing things slightly different. One thing I like about this ward is they always have a someone from the primary walk up and read a scripture (only 1 time did it come through tears) and always have a youth speaker. Also I like standing up for the intermediate hymns. When we did not have one yesterday the chorister had us stand up for the closing hymn. She had to gesture 2 or 3 times to make it happen.

what our Easter was like. usual wake up stuff. also we got call president about a few things going on in our area. He mentioned he was already having a good easter being with his family and having a good breakfast. I told him WE considered Easter a religious holiday so WE were going to church! he laughed. It's always good to talk to him. 

Church was more full than usual and very good. We were given one jar of jellybeans and each given a Easter basket while at there. Afterwards we went and visited some families who all live close together and near the church. 

First we went tot he Permenter family. We showed them something president emailed to us a while ago we hadn't really used before. It was a format for a fancy invitation to tell a friend you were speaking at church. We re-formatted it a little bit and printed one sample one on card stock paper. It looked really good. Sister Permenter said if a friends from another church gave her one she would totally go and support/watch her give the talk. None of them were giving a talk (or getting baptized, receiving priesthood, etc) soon, but we talked about how every testimony meeting is a great opportunity to assign yourself a chance to be up in front. We discussed who they all thought they could invite to hear them bear testimony. There were 3 different people they brought up (all by the 2 young men in the home). They seemed pretty excited about it and only slightly worried about it being awkward or rejected (because they remember, every invite is a success!) They decided by this sunday they'll have more personalized invites printed out, so then they'll have a week to sue them to invite their people to hear them bear testimony. Also they were thinking of a few other people in the ward who they want to ask to bear testimony just to make sure it is a great meeting (and full of real testimonies, not wonky stories). 

Earlier in the weak another of the young men, Parker, said during a dinner appointment he could think of at least 1 person he would want to invite to hear him in this coming testimony meeting. We did not get the chance to show him the fancy invite card to see if he would want to use it. They said we could come back in a week to see how it was going.

After our meeting with the Permenters we went to the Colemans. We had already had a meeting similar to this about 2 weeks before at a dinner with them, but they were more thinking about who they could invite to hear a boy in the family, Carver, give his youth talk. We did not have the fancy invites back then. We found out Carver, his older brother Nathan and his mom all had good experiences inviting people, even though none of those people came. The daughter of the family had a different neat missionary experience though and the dad was sick and didn't go to weak most of the week before. We told them good job and then discussed what they thought their next step was for sharing the gospel and told them about how some other young men were going to use the coming testimony meeting and also about our new cool invite cards. Nathan, the older brother, really liked the testimony meeting idea (now being referred to as THE testimony meeting or sometimes The Greatest Testimony Meeting Ever) and said he knew at least 1 or 2 he could invite. Also they all thought the card stock invitations were cool, but wouldn't fit into their current plans. Carver talked about a friend he wanted to invite to mutual, the sister's plan was inviting the neighbor to girls camp and Sister Coleman really wants to have the neighbors over for dinner. Brother Coleman was the only person who got away without a concrete plan, but did say he would be on the look out for something he thought was a good idea to invite some people from work to. Possibly something they could help do service at (which idea came from PEM, which he bought and is reading. Also the idea of asking a few other members from the ward to bear their testimony to make it a good one is from the PEM). Great meeting, and they said we could have our next follow up in 2 weeks to see how it went and once again figure out "what's next."

Both of those meetings went pretty much ideal and the whole "what's next" idea is what president Packard has really been pushing his whole time here. Usually it would be what's next for their specific friends they've had good experiences with in the past. Ideally the meetings would last about 20 minutes, but with both those families there was a lot to talk about so they went longer, plus they are families that don't at all mind.

Right now the tally for THE testimony meeting is 4 young men (Parker, 2 Permenter boys and Nathan Coleman) each inviting at least 1 person. It should be great. We'll talk to more members, especially young men, about hopping on the bandwagon. I'm a little bit surprised none of the YM's parents already weren't inspired to jump on it. One cool thing about missionary work is that success sells success so it can have a great snowball effect and the spirit of it can spread around.

After the Coleman's we went to the Reids. There we just talked about helping brother Reid connect with a family he home teaches. succesfully under 20 minutes.

THen we went to the Whitings (Relief society president and he is in the Elders Quorum presidensy) to report on some people they asked us to help track down.

After that we had that big, good and important investigator lesson I mentioned earlier.

Then we went to our Easter dinner which was very good for food (ham, super good funeral potatoes, turkey, rolls, various desserts) and for coordinating a few other things with the members there.

Very Excellent way to spend Easter!

The rest of the week was also good. I hope you enjoyed the thorough Easter day report though.  I exhort everyone to facebook post about the upcoming general conference! you can use my facebook to link to it too! 

Also if you want I could email the format of the fancy smachey invitation we've been showing to people if you want to see it (or use it!) (great for speaking, testimony meetings, special music numbers, primary programs/singing time stuff, when you are teaching in relief society or YM or gospel doctrine! or anything!) (or just invite them to come without the card too!)

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